Cultural Identity, Beauty Standards, and the 'Mixed Race"

I want to express a viewpoint that's been on my mind, and I want to emphasize that I'm not trying to disrespect anyone who is of mixed race or has mixed-race children, including those who belong to multiple ethnic groups, like myself.

I recently came across a video with the caption "When I thought I was gonna have a Mixed baby." The video featured a couple, and it transitioned to show a white or very light-skinned child, likely adopted. The tone of the video seemed to convey a sense of disappointment, followed by a commitment to love the child anyway.

My perspective on this is a call to address colorism and challenge prevailing beauty standards. I understand the desire for what some may term as "good features," but it's disheartening when these ideals consistently align with European standards of beauty. Why should there be disappointment if a child doesn't have a light complexion?

I question the inclination to label children as anything other than Black. Why not celebrate and embrace that identity? Additionally, if someone claims a mix, it's crucial to understand and appreciate the components of that mix.

In reality, we are all mixed to some extent, so why elevate expectations for a "Mixed Race" child? The essence of this perspective is a plea for everyone to love and embrace themselves, their cultures, and their unique backgrounds. Let's celebrate the richness of Black culture and the diverse tapestry of American cultures, recognizing that beauty comes in various forms and shades.