Saturday, February 12, 2005

Kids, Boundaries, & Contradictions

So, She got four kids, forty years old, and that’s cool, that’s her path. But then she flips it and tells a man he’s “suspect” ‘cause he don’t got kids. Like he less of a man ‘cause his life ain’t full of Pampers and Happy Meals. Make it make sense.

Dolks out here acting like boundaries are abusive, like standards are misogyny. A man says, “Nah, I got limits,” and suddenly he’s controlling. Meanwhile, sis is running the whole show with contradictions on repeat.

It’s wild. Everybody wanna lead but nobody wanna let go of the steering wheel. That’s why these relationships spin out. Too much control, not enough trust.

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