A few weeks ago, I went on a date that seemed promising at first. He was confident, respectful, and even admired educated women like myself. But then, he made a comment that made my stomach drop: “I like my girls thick. Big girls got that special something.” At first, I shrugged it off, thinking maybe it was a weird comment. But then came, “And I’m thick between the legs myself.”
That’s when I felt the shift. I wasn’t interested in the over-the-top bragging. Something felt off. As the night went on, I felt more uneasy, like he was trying too hard to play a role—like his words weren’t genuine.
A few days later, I saw his mugshot on the news. He was a suspect in a string of robberies. My instincts had been right. That uneasy feeling? It wasn’t just my imagination.
Here’s the thing: we have to stay vigilant. People can present themselves as one thing, but our instincts often tell us something different. Trusting that gut feeling, listening to those quiet warnings—it's essential. It’s not about judging on the surface but staying aware and not ignoring what doesn’t feel right.
Ladies, don’t let charm or confidence blind you. If something feels off, listen to it. It’s your mind and body telling you to stay vigilant.
Trust your instincts. They’re more powerful than you think.
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